None of that is even what I'm planning on sharing. Rather, I want to share a couple of questions she asks on page 59:
What are some of the most misleading images and perceptions that adults and children alike tend to believe?and
How can you clearly see the enemy's strategy behind these philosophies or trends?
Three lies that are prevalent in today's society struck out to me. I'm not saying thee are the top three or the best three or most prevalent. I'm only saying these three were what came to mind.
First lie that came to mind believed by most Americans, Christian and non-Christian alike, is that happiness is ultimate. My thought goes all the way back to my college days when I asked fellow Christian students what the point of life is and they decided being happy was the purpose. We might think that's stupid, college-kid talk, but the pursuit of happiness is part of Declaration of Independence. It is core to our society. These students were simply products of their culture. We have so many friends and family members pursuing happiness. We have cultures pursuing happiness on this planet in ways that are horrific to the rest of us. Why do people hurt, steal, rape, kill, enslave, and murder others? They think it will make them happy. People never identify themselves as the bad guy. They're only "misunderstood". Understand this, you will only be most happy when your satisfaction is found in Christ. Deny yourself, die to yourself daily, take up your cross, lose your life for Christ. Does this sound familiar? Matthew 16:24, Mark 8:34, Luke 9:23 How can you tell if you are a bad guy or not? What I ask myself is, "What does God have to say about this? Am I being a product of my culture or is this really what the Bible says?" I get advice on the big things that aren't clear to me. If someone says, "I think that's ok." but they can't give me a Biblical reason why it's ok, I need to ask someone with a deeper relationship with Christ. We can't let our fleeting feelings guide us. We can't "be true to ourselves" or "follow our hearts" because these are complete lies from Satan and go exactly opposite what God tells us in his Word: Deny yourself (Matthew 16:24), We have a nature of sin (Romans 7:14-24), and our hearts are deceitfully wicked (Jeremiah 17:9).
Happiness is not ultimate. God is ultimate. Your happiness is secondary, if not tertiary, to God's glory. Once you find your satisfaction in Him and Him alone, you will find your idols strangely dim and non-consequential. This is a hard truth. Christ sacrificed himself for us and asks us to sacrifice ourselves for him.
The second lie that I see many Christians believing is that they are entitled to comfort. You see these Christians planning how many kids they want and the timing between them to make their own lives as easy as possible. Many Christians decide they want none or only one. It's their choice. It's their body. They prayed about it. It's all lies. If you are not living your life for God, your comfort is stupid. These Christians are not living their lives for God. They are living their lives for comfort. For their own happiness. They aren't willing to sacrifice. They have to have the 4000 square foot home, and the yacht, and the vacations, and the stuff (you don't need stuff in excess to still idolize your stuff). I used to get jealous of seeing so many people with stuff but then I remembered Colossians 3:1-2 that says, "If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth." So we don't plan our kids like a budget but trust that God only creates good things and those good things have purpose from conception. I have never heard a godly excuse for using birth control. Question yourself in this. Are you a victim of your culture or did you really come away from Scripture reading one day and suddenly realize you should trust your own might over God's? Perhaps while reading Genesis 11? Never has this happened. Instead, suddenly this past century people started praying about whether they've been "called" to have kids. I can tell you that if God has not called you to have kids, then go ahead and skip the condom and see if you're right. God will certainly not get in the way of his own callings. A house divided cannot stand. Read more about this challenge to trust God will all your heart, soul, mind, and strength here.
The third lie I recently saw, to my shock and horror, is that children need their parents. The specific incident was in a group where the question was asked, if you had to choose between your unborn child and your wife, who would you choose or what would you hope your husband would choose? Any pro-lifer would say, choose the baby. Any godly woman would gladly offer her life for the mere chance that her child would live. That's why parents dive in after their kid or try to grab them from the street and other acts of selflessness. But one mother said she'd hope her husband would choose her because she has other kids at home who need her.
This is a lie from Satan.
Your kids do not need you. They need Jesus. Jesus will bring his chosen ones to himself however he chooses. It is never godly to take someone else's life for the convenience of your family. Another fellow said he could make another child but couldn't just make another wife. These disgusting platitudes are from people claiming to be Christian. They reek of the death culture we are surrounded in. Satan is very glad to have so convincingly deceived so many into thinking that one life is better than the other. It's especially interesting when our Declaration of Independence says that all men are created equal. A godly person sacrifices their life for their children. A godly person does not think that their family will never survive without them. What egotistical nonsense! Your family doesn't need you. Your family needs God. And God will use even fire to sanctify his chosen ones and help conform them into the image of his Son, Jesus. I will gladly die if it means my children bear the image of Christ. Whoever loves his children more than he loves Jesus is not worthy of Him (Matthew 10:37).
This is a hard truth. Think of it this way- God has run an infinite number of scenarios in which you live and die different ways, but this chosen way gets you all the closer to the image of Christ. You want this way, even if it's hard. There is much more to this discussion as far as people's choice versus God's sovereignty that I can't possibly give adequate attention to. Maybe one day.
This post is meant to challenge you. Question yourself. Question your leaders. Question your culture. If it isn't supported in the Bible, it isn't true and not worth your time. Soli Deo Gloria.